"We're like family"...I had this discussion today at work. The boss lady was trying to be all nicey nice and get me to be her friend... But I don't want to be your friend. I will be friendly and respectful, but I didn't get this job with the expectation and goal of being your best buddy. I am here to do my job, succeed at my goals, make a good earning to live comfortably, and make my wifey proud.